Divorce coaching enabled me to focus on the emotional upheaval I was going through and helped to deal with the stresses of having to sit opposite my ex partner during our mediation services with solicitors. I think anyone going through a divorce/breakup would benefit from divorce coaching and wouldn't hesitate to recommend this service.

You are very good, very professional, very ethical and know what you are doing. You have given me a path to travel in the knowledge that I can know what I am doing and the eventual consequences. Your knowledge of what to do and when is invaluable – financially, emotionally and legally.

I think the most positive aspect of our consultation is knowing that someone with your understanding and experience is 'out there' at this difficult time. Practicalities have thankfully taken over for now, and the emotional problems have yet to be resolved.

Grateful thanks.. Everything you say is so absolutely true and it is amazing how we sometimes we cannot see the wood for the trees and we seem to have turned a corner, so must now enjoy the good times.

You are there as a confidant to discuss important issues with - someone to share the most difficult times as someone who has ‘been there’ and can offer new ways of tackling things and coping. You have helped me avoid making stupid emotionally lead decisions, and have provided balance, enabling me to tackle the tough situations less emotionally - especially important when dealing with my ex.

You helped me focus my thoughts and strengthen my resolve, it was very easy to just hide away from it all. Of most help is your very warm manner, making you very approachable and very easy to talk to.

Separation and Divorce is a painful process, even when you know it has to be done. There are lawyers to deal with the legal side and friends who will listen, but do they really want to hear how miserable you are? I found myself worrying that they would get tired with hearing about it as the process dragged on and on. Having people to talk to is important, but so is knowing you will still have some friends when it is all over!

Kirsten has been an enormous help. Someone who has done it herself, with sound sensible advice, while putting no pressure on you to do it “her way” - she can help you come to your own decisions. If you want to jump off the roller coaster, and take control of your own life Kirsten is the one to talk too. Discuss all the options with someone who understands where you are. Even if you are feeling completely lost, Kirsten can help you to focus and find your own goals to work on. She is not going to judge and is someone who will not be fazed when it all becomes too much and you are having trouble just holding it together. I’m getting there…with the right support and help; we may come out poorer but we can become positive individuals with an exciting future ahead.

How have your services made my life easier? You are there; your services are affordable thus reducing money stress; you are a confidant; I can call most hours; I don’t have to use lawyers until key moments and you either know what I need to know or have, or you know where to find out. Essentially you do most of the work for me so I can get on with the day job.